What are your thoughts on the article? I would be interested in hearing what you think too. Thanks.
This would be a good discussion to have so if others want to chime in I would be interested in hearing their thoughts...
Here are mine: H and I have maintained a certain friendship in our sitch. The first couple months all we did was fight and I was the one starting the fights and H was on the run. Once I found DB I stopped fighting and even now we can have civilized conversations. Just the other day, I was talking to H about how I am proud of myself b/c of how I have handled the situation b/c other people don't handle it so well and he said that we are civilized to each other b/c we talked about how we would be if we break up. If made me think that H thinks that I am OK with the situation. I adamently told him No I am not and that I have tons of reasons to go crazy on him but I chose to not act crazy. Anyway, it made me wonder if the friendship makes H think that I am peachy with this situation. But then again, it could just be an excuse because the number of arguments we've had over his A there should be no way that he thinks that.
But I do try to not talk to H too often or to be too close of a friend because my attitude is that he left so he shouldn't have the benefits of me. Like someone on this site said before: as long as everyone is willing to keep the triangel stable, there would be no reason for it to change. So I try distance friendship.
