Hi 25yrsMLC. I, too, have an Ivy League, overachieving husband who gets all of his validation on work and have no more energy left for his family. Whenever I bring this up, he feels guilty and now has ended up blaming me for everything and is with OW, his subordinate.
He has left and I see parts of your sitch in mine. I like the advice you gave to Shark, that's why I wanted to say Hi. I can see your lawyer training in the way you analyzed his sitch. Very nice. I really like the way your mind works. Wished mine could be as sharp as yours. If you have anytime to visit my sitch, I would appreciate it. I'm in Infidelity, PM thread #4.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09