Hi 25yrsMLC. I, too, have an Ivy League, overachieving husband who gets all of his validation on work and have no more energy left for his family. Whenever I bring this up, he feels guilty and now has ended up blaming me for everything and is with OW, his subordinate.

He has left and I see parts of your sitch in mine. I like the advice you gave to Shark, that's why I wanted to say Hi. I can see your lawyer training in the way you analyzed his sitch. Very nice. I really like the way your mind works. Wished mine could be as sharp as yours. If you have anytime to visit my sitch, I would appreciate it. I'm in Infidelity, PM thread #4.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'