Maybe re-read the first section. Those unalterable terms are your boundaries. I agree, a few new ones might be in order, especially with regards to your daughter, and protecting her from your W's indecision.
Keep us posted and don't do anything rash. The more you post about things you are deciding on, the more objective feedback you can get.
Ready yourself emotionally for a potential pulling away for starters. You don't want to overreact to her testing you.
Please do keep working on yourself no matter what happens.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
