Well done Julia. I know that disentangling yourself is painful and takes a lot of emotional effort as well as mental jumprope! You seem to be taking it all really well.
Yes, he's a different person than you married. Aren't they all? If they had stayed who we thought they were then none of this would have happened right? It's good that others are realizing how much you have grown through this time. Trauma either destroys us or builds our character and you have built yours tremendously!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!