Wow, you are coping well, thats good to see. I know what you mean, my sister said the same thing! She said that I handled it too with such dignity that good things are coming to me in life, its hard to believe at times, but people also tell me how different I am now, through all of this. And no, my ex doesnt see that either, sad isnt it? It is sad... I dont suppose ow is the love of his life, anymore than Helen is for my ex. Guess they are a stepping stone, sadly.
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread