Yeah I have nothing further to say to her about it. That being said - negotiations would have been fruitless, because she doesn't want to give up any control of D(1). Also - I've got strong evidence (old and new) that makes a psychological evaluation likely. The A in this case is probably a symptom of some deep-rooted psychological issues she has had for a long time.
Self-cutting, suicidal thoughts, all sorts of things she chronicled before she met me tied around the deaths of friends and family - sex, lack of inhibition, hatred towards people who cared about her.
Her father died late last year, and now I'm seeing the same behavior I read about in her journal. The last time we ML she had a long cut across her stomach that she didn't have a clear answer for. I haven't seen her forearms since January. Even when it was 70 degrees the other day - she was wearing long black sleeves.
I've got serious concerns about her mental stability, not just the A. I could care less about the A - just a symptom of the bigger problem.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
