Guys,
My wife is going out tonight with some girlfriends to a restaurant. Should I compliment her on how she looks, or just say "have a nice time". She has not commented on me when I go out, but one of her previous gripes was that I neve told her how she looked when we used to go out. I did actually at times, but as Puppy said, she is trying to re-write history.

Also, it is her birthday tomorrow and I have bought her some presents, but they have been labelled from the children. I also have a card for her which I have not written yet - should I give her a card to show I care, and if so what should I write in it. It is a plain card with no I Love You on it. I have always done tis in the past but I don't know if this would be Needy and Persuing.

By the way, when I moved back into the marital bed, my wife moved out of it and now sleeps in my sons bed.

Last edited by markhaving probs; 03/18/09 03:35 PM.

Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years