Well, I'm back........

My money issue w/my H, is in no comparison with others are going through. Almost seems kinda trivial. Anyway, my H emailed me back today saying:

Sorry did not e-mail back sooner. I am just so far behind and the company can not repay my credit card for the trip yet. I know it is weird and all but can I borrow 600 for 4 weeks? With all that is going on with us I understand why you will not give the loan but I just wanted to ask. I will talk to you later.

So there you have it. What will I do - probably loan him the money. Do I raise the issue that, one reason he left was to take care of this stuff on his own?? And what will he do when he is "really" single?? Well, that's what I would want to say. On the other hand it takes a lot of guts & swallowing his pride for him to ask me for money. Is this a lose lose situation for his ego??

Thoughts anyone??


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)