Quick synposis of my sitch...

My H and I are both military, were in a long distance R, and got married this past summer. Right before he deployed to Iraq in December he filed for D - stating our M won't work out for him. Why??? I am still trying to figure it out :-) I am currently waiting to be served D papers. I will also deploy this summer to Afghanistan for at least 12 months. So the dilemma is do I hire a L and drag out the D until I get back from deployment or just let things happen...

I have all my faith, hope, and trust in God and surrender our M to him a few months ago. I will continue standing for our M and let God do his thing.


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09