Puppy,
What do you mean by mutual transparency? And I know what you mean about repeating history--I don't intend to do that. I'm not sure about the boundaries question either. Would you care to make some suggestions?

Thanks,
John

M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!