J, going dark for me would be abit of both. I get the impression my wife would not worry one little bit I was not there. I think she wants me out of the house so that she can experience what life is all about. Single (with children) and not missing me at all. The reason I say this is because of her anger and complete coldness to me, there is no compassion or feeling toward me at all. Please help.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years