so OK good job trythfully, i think our H will cooperate for the most part( depending on them) it helps if we can keep a friendly cordial atmosmphere espesially in the beginning this helped my situation b/c H came regulary 4x a week and visited--we became friends and I practiced being accepting of him peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow