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[markhaving probs]

Hi Saffie,
My wife does seem very stressed, in fact your situation sounds exactly like mine. She said when I asked her on a number of occasions if there was somebody else "why do men always assume there is somebody else"? She went on to say I have just fallen out of love with you. We have never sat down and discussed the future properly, we justed existed, no nights out, no surprises, nothing. It is so clear to me now when it appears to be too late.

I had a major setback last night. About one month ago I tried to hack into her cell phone account to see her on-line bills. Unfortunately I was unable to do so. She had a problem with her phone yesterday and she was told that somebody had attempted to hack into her account. She knew it was me and I could not deny it, she said all respect for me had now gone and walked out of the room. I went swimming for a couple of hours and came back. She seemed to have calmed down and we chatted about everyday things. In fact she seemed more chatty than normal which unnerved be a bit. She sent me a text this morning about the heating in the house, and there was a X (kiss) at the end of the message. I am now totally confused as it really does look all over and I guess the stress might have gone because she now knows she has made the right decision. Is she going through a MLC, she is 41 tomorrow.

What do you think