Maybe I should be in piecing part 7?

[Hope4us]

I appreciate your comments, but this has been the same scenario for 8 months. She's great on the weekends and a different person during the week.

What's the common theme? She's at work where EGF is and where she could contact OM. It's kind of hard not to obsess about it.

I know I can't blame EGF or OM for W's actions, but to say there's only 2 people in our marriage I think is not facing the fact that she seems to let herself be influneced by at least one other person and maybe 2.

I get what you're saying Break, but even if W is not talking to OM anymore, she's still hanging on to her affair items (last I knew) and in my book, that doesn't tell me it's over. Maybe it is. But venting on here is the only way I avoid losing it at home.

So those last couple posts were vents. After Saturday I felt like we would move forward. Sunday seemed we were. She goes back to work and is different. So I guess I'll ask for a little slack in being concerned with what's going on while she's at work.

That being said, I hear what you're saying.

W kept up the distance last night when she got home so I called her on it. After 15 minutes of her being home and not even looking at me or saying a word, I asked her if there was something bothering her. "No". I said "well, I guess I assumed since all I've got were one word answers all day, there must be something bothering you". "Nothing's bothering me". So then about 5 minutes later she walks in the family room and is in a different mood. Talking all about her day, etc. Was that way most of the night.

Talk to ya soon.