Hi Abby, just got my computer back and running. Hope it holds up this time. Anyway, how are things going by now? Did that list help you any at all?

Being nice makes it hard to "pull back" and not jump to do wonderful little "nice" things for your H, but in your case, I think if you were not quite so quick to be ready to please him and wait on him hand and foot (if you do), then he may stop taking your for granted (if he does). I know I could have been a lot nicer to my H and done more favors and waited on him more, but I'll say this.....he never took anything "nice" that I did, for granted. (lol) He appreciated every thing I did b/c he knew I did not "always" do that everytime.

Anyway, let us hear from you and tell us how you are doing.

Sandi


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!