Well he came round last night, aid it's over. Said now we need to discuss where to go from here. He wants to but me out, he has it all planned. I was very calm and said I was sad and disappointed that he didn't speak to me sooner and that the way he handled the whole thing was needless and cold.
He doesn't care though, still denied affair was anything to do with it. Now saying it was months ago that his feelings changed. He was matter of fact, shrugged his shoulders. still wearing ring which was bit strange for someone so sure.
Anyway, I need to start recovering and I need to accept that either we never did have the relationship I thought we did or that it simply wasn't meant to be.
I honestly do not know where it all went wrong and it worries me for the future. Maybe the answers will come and I'll realise that it wasn't all that great a relationship. just can't see it right now.
Need to get to solicitor asap as I think this may turn nasty
