My S6 started telling me about her friend and comments made by my W. I didn't want to believe him, assuming a 6 year old's imagination was getting the better of him, but some of the terminology he used was clearly not his own - which gave it credibility.

He basically stated that W has stated she hates me many times in his presence, and even told S6 that she didn't want me as her husband anymore on the way back from a work party where OM was.

I've tried to be careful about what I say to S6 when he's with me, but I'll let him know when my heart is hurting because of W actions.

Yesterday morning, she confronts me when I came to pick up S6, accusing me of using him to discredit her and basically paint a scarlet letter on her chest.

That made me angry. She can attack me all she wants, but when she starts attacking my relationship to my son, it doesn't go over well, especially when S6 is saying that W is making slanderous comments towards me.

I pointed out that S6 is smart and does have an imagination, also pointing out that S6 is saying W is guilty of making negative comments about me. She denied saying anything, of course, and I could tell she thought I was lying to her.

She's totally hitting 'below the belt', pointing the finger at me for everything when she's just as, if not more, guilty than I am.

Uggh.


H40 (me)
W34 (WAW)
S6
T11
M10

Feb09: Need a break bomb
Mar09: I moved to apartment to GAL, PMA, NMMNG
Apr09: WAW 'dating' OM at work, positive around me lately.

My Sitch