It's Complicated! Part 4

[glamgirl]

Thanks all for posting and encouraging. Sometimes it is so hard to know what to do.

Here we go again!

H stops by the house late last night and brings me money for the kids. Before he leaves he says Glam I am so depressed. We hugged each other and h let me lay hands on him and I prayed over him for depression, anger, jobs, and our M.

He was over only about 5 min and then left. Soon after he leaves he calls my cell. He says Glam I can't describe it but I am so depressed and feel like I can't do anything.

He said he is so angry, but doesn't know how to shake it. He said I am so angry that I can't even talk to you Glam without getting so upset.

He said his mom awhile back told him that he wasn't a good father. He resented those comments and said he just can't get over what she said. He said it really bothers him. Now I am sure his mom said that because he wasn't home. In the beginning weeks would go by before we heard from h. I am sure as a mom she knew that she didn't raise h to be like this, so I am sure his actions hurt her and this is why she said what she did.

He also said some nice things too. He apologized a bunch for being depressed. He said thanks for being patient and supportive. He hadn't called on Mon when he changed his plans and wasn't available to meet when he said. He apologized for that and said Glam I should have called you, that wasn't right of me.

He also said Glam you have been the best w, the best mother to our kids, I couldn't ask for anything more. He then apologized more for his depression.

Then he said Glam I am going to get off this call and drive around. He said he would rather listen to the car noise vs his heart pounding sitting alone in a room. I am scared! I don't know how to help h. I don't know what to do.

I sent him a simple e-mail today about change of plans on Friday and then asked how he was doing. No response! Now I am worried.

Tears! What can we do for this depression and anger? Anybody have any ideas?