I think they never got over that trauma and are trying to relive it as well as comprehend it.
They are stuck.
What really bothers me about all of this is that my ex was such a mature, wonderful man before this.
He does not even remotely resemble the man I married now.
I do have to say that I believe my ex will eventually come out of all of this.
This does not mean though he will want to reconcile.
He has always liked to pick up and start over in jobs.
I think he will do the same in relationships.
He did tell me that I was just a reminder of his failures.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
