Well, we had the talk tonight about the visitation, etc. We are in agreement about almost everything, so that's good. As long as it stays like this everything should go smoothly. I'm just going to try to keep a positive attitude and keep telling myself that I can do this.

BTW- He did not object to the no overnight guests, or the First Right of Refusal. We agreed that grandparents are acceptable babysitters, but any others would have to be okayed by both parents. That is how it has always been. My kids have never been left with sitters other than grandparents.

Neither one of us has $3000 to throw down for a lawyer right now, so it will be great if we can stay in agreement about things.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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