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My X is also following his fathers life
His father M OW, then died in his forties
MY xh mother moved kids to another state and father had no R with any of them--our H are on automatic following the script,
breaking up the family
I wonder if they are trying to come to terms with their own childhood in this
like now my X must underatand why he had no R with his dad
forgiving his dad b/c he has dont the same to his kids
or maybe they just repeat the offense and avoid seeing any connections to their family of origin
peace
and doing the same thing to his kids


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow