{{B}} - thanks for stopping by - you know we were all worried about you the other night. Glad you turned it around for yourself. And that self-centeredness stuff is a B**** with A's. Sometimes I don't know if I hate the anger or the self-centeredness more. Take care.
{{S}} - Once again my friend you said so much in just the right way - (I know you work hard at it) I do have a hard time with not being there for him through the recovery. On the other hand I won't know if he can do it or wants to do it if I am there. My SS would keep saying to me last year - you have to let him decide if he is happier drinking or not drinking. We both saw that he was having a hard time choosing. SS also said that if he chooses to be happy drinking, he knows we won't be seeing each other again - all of us.
So, I am reminded by all to stay focused on me (UGH! please don't make me do it LOL) Let him figure things out for himself and AJ - I have been trying to come up with goals for the R if it gets back on track.
