So my week without the kids went ok. It was pretty tough being without them for a whole 7 days, but I did get to see them. That made it a bit easier.
He brought them home at 4:30 and also brought over some stuff I left and a book shelf. He commented "it's a nice apt" and then gave me and the kids a hug goodbye. Then he remembered that he had forgotten one of the kid's school bags and was all pissy about it.
I told him I'd come over and get it a little later. No big deal.
So all is ok. My d8 proceeds to tell me that when our neighbor was visiting, he asked H if he was going to start dating. D8 didn't listen for the answer, and I told her that she didn't have to tell me these things. Also I told her that she shouldn't have to hear these kind of things either. So I don't know if I should just let it be or talk to H about watching what is talked about while the kids are there. It makes them very sad to hear stuff like that. Then they get worried that mom is going to start to date.
At any rate, I was upset not only by the comments, but the fact that my neighbors never made an attempt to visit with me while I was there.
Then I get to the house to pick up s10's stuff and H is all dressed up. Couldn't be any more obvious that he was going "somewhere". UUUGGGGGGGGHHHHH
Oh well, poor me. lol
Life goes on, and I am closer to being completely done with H.
Most hope is gone out the window, and I'm almost at the point where I don't want him back and wonder what was so good about him in the first place.
I start school in 3 weeks! Yeah me, go me go!
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