Oh man wish I was going with ya to that Pub. They have a great Pub around here, but the line is around the block to get in, but it is so fun.

The kids and I will just eat something green :-)


Chick.

About the advice.

Maybe just maybe, the people were trying to be protective of your heart baby girl.

You have been through the ringer.

It has not been easy.

Also I am sure that those people really have no idea how much YOU have grown.
How you live in awareness to your surroundings and think twice before making any moves and pray about decisions first.

All they can imagine of your shoes is

You were hopeful, for your H to come to his senses. You were being intimate with him during the seperation, to keep the connection going. All the while he was still dating the same ole OW and got her pregnant.

SMACK in the face.

People can't even fathom that much pain.

And here you are, living through it with grace and dignity. The OW showed up at your house and you asked if she wanted something to drink and all the while she could not even look at you in the face.

For you see, your strength, and all around appearance, and the way you conduct yourself, does not demonstrate a woman that has been through hell.

It demonstrates a woman that has her shizz together, and they can not wrap their brain around that.

Let it roll off your back mami.

Just like you said Thank you and keep on walking.

Take it all in good faith.

I am pretty sure they are just trying to protect your heart.

As they should

Cheers hermana.


Live Simply
Love Generously
Care Deeply
Speak Kindly
Leave the rest to God