You're continue to do a great job with your sitch. The only suggestion I would have is that you not ask her what time she's going out or when she's coming back for anything.
Give her freedom and space while she's with you and show her that she can have that while still with you. So she doesn't have to give up anything or feel the need to check-in.
Stuck,
I appreciate the encouragement
She wound up not going out with her girlfriend tonite. I tried to be sympathetic and supportive as I thought she had really wanted to go. She appologized for flip flopping back and forth
Guess I'll have to wait for another opportunity to test my anxieties!
Thanks for all your support
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13