Okay, WTH is wrong with everyone??????

Seems like this weekend at my cousin's fab wedding I was getting ALL kinds of unsolicited advice...and it was annoying! I loved the one person that told me: Vali, I heard that you should not date for an entire year after your divorce because it is like you are mourning the death of someone.REALLY? YA THINK?I was thinking to myself, look chick, he's been gone for over 2.5 years...for over 2 years I did not go out...I just hung out at my house and waited for him patiently (and not so patiently) and now that I am moving on you're thinking it is a good thing for me to WAIT some more??????

ARE U KIDDING ME??????? All this from a person who has NEVER been divorced. Easy for her to say. So I just smiled and said thanks, but I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do...

Hell, it isn't like I am dating anyone anyway...for Pete's sake!

I swear, some people are just bossy...

Anyhoo, today is St. Paddy's day and I am going to a pub and drink something green!

Hugs to all,
Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller