Just wanted to check in again. I have read through your last posts and I agree with stuck. You are doing so much better than even 2 weeks ago. This is going to take still a lot of time. Remember, up until two weeks ago, you were the needy, clingy, controlling type of guy, and even though she had noticed a few changes, she was still not attracted to you. Also, you have still a lot of room to improve, so let it settle in.
If I just go by my experience, even 4 weeks after such a life-changing experience as Retrouvaille, the outcome is not clear. We are getting closer to each other, start to build a connection again, but it is still very unstable. So do not expect something like a "Boom! Everything is OK again." That will not happen. You need a lot of patience for this long process. I am very optimistic that you will get your chance.
AN
M43 W45, M17 S9 D6 Bomb: 11/11/08 EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ? Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09 Healed, but still heading for D My situation