Today....I brought my fireside bagpipes to work..and..had an idea. I called my kids elementary school and asked if I could bring them in and sorta do a 'show and tell'. IT WAS OK'D. I played the pipes in D5's classroom...TOTAL HIT. I played them in S8's classroom...TOTAL HIT (except S8 was a little embarrassed). Played them for the PRINCIPAL ...TOTAl HIT.
I felt great.
But..even better...............
I called my L's office: Me: Hi...'Mary'(office manager)...today...I am calling with a one minute positive line...I"m heading to my kids elementary school to play the bagpipes for them. I won't let STBXW keep me from enjoying being a dad. Mary: Great...well...I think I have some news for you that will make you happy. Me: Really? What's that? I could use some.
Ready????
Mary: The law guardian sent us a copy of a letter requesting that your wife stop sending her letters.
No need to explain this any further. I have such a sense of relief today:
-I played for my kids -I lightened the elementary school -the LG told my STBXW to shut up.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;