Thanks Snodderly for you advice.

I do think my ex is following in his mother's footsteps.

Ex is doing exactly what she did to her family and children.

She did not own up to her responsibility until she was about 55.

She died at 59, and had just started reading the bible.

She missed her ex for a good 20 years.

She always tried to find someone to replace him, but could not find someone like him.

She went through 3 other marriages.

Such a shame.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11