Hi kb, just to lift your spirits a bit. My H said he wanted back after a whole year of separation. I know you may feel that things are leading you to the divorce and I havent read your sitch, but 2 months of separation is... sorry to say, nothing!!
How did you use these 2 months to get closer to your goal? Sometimes we, LBS, get comfortable with the separation and "give up' because it is easier(we are all human after all) ,is this what is happening to you?
Has she talked about divorce yet? How are your interactions? do you make the best out of them? I remember the first months for us were very... business like. Slowly he would stay over when he picked the kids up for a coffee, then lunch, then lingered when he didnt have to etc etc. Of course there were times when he disappeared. But I was consistent and tried to be/look/act the best way I could. When he told me he wants to try again, he said he had noticed all the changes I went through.
So, if you love her, 2 months are just barely enough for the hard feelings to start fading. If you want your M, my suggestion is to start now with some serious DBing... I am sure you are calmer now and that allows you to think before you act and that is important. Good Luck K
