You're continue to do a great job with your sitch. The only suggestion I would have is that you not ask her what time she's going out or when she's coming back for anything.
Give her freedom and space while she's with you and show her that she can have that while still with you. So she doesn't have to give up anything or feel the need to check-in.
Your last counseling session sounded great since she didn't bring up anything really argumentative.
I continue to believe you've got a great shot at this with this new combination of compassion and detachment that you've achieved.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.