Whatdidido - lots of people say this, that many of the WAS's will regret their decision to leave. Funny, I think my H worries about regretting it later on down the road and that is part of what keeps him from letting me go completely. But in my heart, I feel like he WON'T regret it because I am so clearly not what he wants.
Either way, I am going to continue to try to be happy because I think it is good for me.
I still struggle with whether to go dark with him or not because I feel like if we have no contact at all, then we have no chance at all.