Sounds wonderful Kat! Yeah, wdid, obviously he doesn't care about me or the kids to do this, but I think he's even financially hurting himself by refusing to let me avoid the foreclosure. It's like he hates me so much he would even do that. I don't get it. I certainly won't sign on unless basically he pays me for that, like the car payment or something, that's what my L was working on. But he didn't want to do that. I won't be doing it out of the kindness of my heart; maybe it would be good for him to face consequences. But I think still today he is 100% blaming me for all this. Karen
