Sadly this is my second divorce so I have been through this with my other kids. My first exh and I get along great and always have. We are flexible with schedules and sit together at functions and are good friends....but still my kids have hated this situation. I asked them once and they are grateful that we get along well, but it hasn't been easy. You still worry about hurting one parent or anothers feelings, you miss your other parent, you have 2 homes, 2 rooms, and things going back and forth. Its hard and stressful even under decent circumstances like mine.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!