Divorce looming #6

[K4D]

Well, she is on the side of the kids and they are her primary concern. I think she was just disapointed to learn about the affair and it also made her have to adjust going ahead and adressing someone else coming into the kids lives. She said a good time frame is at least 6 months after the D has gone through to give the kids time to adjust before introducing someone new to them.

But when we both originally talked to the counselor together, W just pointed out that she wanted a D and pointed to other issues that she wasn't interested in resolving. W made no mention of the A that had been going on. So she wasn't upfront with the counselor to best advise both of us.

My W says it is awkward to talk to me. I'm not sure why it would be awkward. I don't find it awkward to talk to her.

Kevin