First boundary you set is for yourself. Repeat after me, I will not waste my energy or time worrying about what my W is thinking or feeling. If I really want to know I will ask. I do not control nor am I responsible for her feelings ot thoughts. I am responsible for my own actions and thoughts. Say it until you believe it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.