I guess what I am wondering in particular has to do with the polygraph and whether having him do this fits in with the DB'ing techniques and whether or not it would be seen as intentionally humiliating my WH.
I'm really tired of people being hurt and people doing things that they might not really want to do. I've had enough. I tried to tell him last night, that it was fine if he didn't want to do it and I was fine with that, it was his choice. I had to make my choice based on that. Then he gets pissed and says "I said I would do it" but it was not very nicely said and then he goes on to yell at me "that stuff is a joke and you need to read all these articles that prove that its inaccurate and how they try to intimidate and manipulate the subject and that I'm just trying to humiliate him".
