What's next???? The adventure continues!!!

[AFWAW]

All right, halfway through the day and I'm having a little easier time with the emotions. Probably in the anger phase but not as angry as you would think. Still confused about the visit last night. Wish I could read her mind. I hate to say it but it would probably give me pleasure if I knew she was thinking about what she's doing and trying to rationalize it her mind. I hope she thinks about nothing else for years. It finally has hit me how mean and evil this person is with the way she went about this and how she expects me to accept it and get over it so quickly. I have certainly learned a lot about myself over this past month and am constantly thinking back to times we've spent together and wondering what was wrong with that time. I think it's about time to establish and vocalize some boundries with the wife. Any suggestions as to what they could be?