My wife used to say she is not leaving her family. She would never acknowledge the fact that we were a family. In a wierd way she viewed the kids, herself and her family as a family. I was not included.
I know exactly what you mean, sucks sometimes doesn't it?
I'm learning to be a lil' cold to a certain extent. I used to let everything bother me and show that it affected me. Now not so much, even if it does affect me I let it roll off my back, so now those comments are coming less frequently.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug