Sara, thanks for the good words. I looked into Retrouvaille, but I think that would be one of these "does it get me closer/farther" things that would = "farther" at this point.
I didn't "reignite" w/ the old girlfriend to make W jealous -- regrettably she's not the jealousy type! It was actually old gf who found me, and we've had nice, purely "what've you been doing all these years" talks. The Match.com thing was for me -- WHAT IF I have to date again? What's that like?
Man waiting in the wings? I think it's possible. Certainly there is Abstract Man, the idea of the man who is "compatible." She's flirtatious, but always was, and I know she's been having an on-line flirtation with a former HS friend up-state. So there's that.
I intend to keep DB'ing; I'm just wondering if the dynamic changes after separation. If @Greek is to be believed, probably not.
