Those of you that have tried to come to agreements about custody and such, I have a question for you. I know you Peace, and a couple of others have been there done that.
I want to put in the rules about 1. Not having overnight guests when the kids are present (OW, or it would also apply to me if I were to ever (ha,ha) want to have a "guest" while the kids are here) 2. First Right of Refusal- so that if H has to work (he works crazy hours weekends, nights, etc.) that he cannot just dump my kids with someone (OW or someone else). He would have to ask me if I wanted to keep them before he left them with someone and went to work.
Do you think in this insane state he's in that he will object to those rules? I can't see any reason why, but I'm thinking like a "normal" parent. If he refuses those clauses, we will fight because I'm not going to have my kids left with OW (who I assume is reallllly young like, 20 or 21). I hope he is agreeable.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
