((((((Lisa)))))) I would have to say that a lack of verbal sworplay skills might be pretty significant with you! So I guess hot guy in pants is out! Doesn't mean you can't have a coffee with him again. Maybe he was so busy being astounded by your wonderfulness that the cat had his tongue, and he needs another chance!
Seriously.... how are you feeling about the direction you are going? It seems to me that it is right, but it is hard to tell from here.
I think the water is getting warmer, almost up to swimming temperature.....
