Letting go and taking a left off last laugh lane

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia,
Well... maybe you need to let go of the fear of talking to him, normally, reasonably.. dont be afraid anymore. DBing makes us feel we cant push, or raise subjects, or pursue, or even ask for one goddamn thing. I am guilty of this, I have drafted an email today about the joint account being short and he has to put money in today to cover his mortgage, but of course, yet again he has forgotton! but I still am not able to just email and tell him, in a freindly way, like.. it doesnt really matter does it? its just them being cr*p.

So.. I say, its not necessarily about protecting yourself or getting a L.. just.. why dont you talk to him? Normally? Say, hey, how come you havent put that money in, sieve head !!! Have a sense of humour about it.. but ASK him to pay what HE owes? And dont text.. texting is lame. Either call and leave a Vm or email him. You dont get enough letters in a text and texts are easily overlooked.

Go on, just be normal !!! He's not the bogeyman, he's just a mere mortal...

Al xxx