Letting go and taking a left off last laugh lane

[mishka422]

((((((((Julia))))))))))))

I'm sorry, I don't want to be the voice of disdain or anything but seriously.....what is he going to have to do for you to retain a L? He is being deliberate in his deception and hurting you more and more. He's dug a hole for himself and now his only choice is to hurt you more through financial means. You have to stop him now or pay for the rest of your life for it.

Sorry again...ranting....probably putting my own financial pain on you somehow but as one who was left with enormous debts that my xH has no intention of ever paying into regardless of what the D decree says, I'm speaking from a place of hurt. I just don't want that hurt for you sweetie. I have no idea how your financial picture is and what your H is truly doing and not doing with the money, but please....please.......PLEASE, protect yourself now.