"I see that you're doing well in your new environment and i'm very glad to see it. I miss you, and I know that I need you. Since you've left, it's been quite hectic in my life and a lot of things happened. I'm very thankful for the support you've given me and a chance for me to take my time.
This past weekend was tough, it would've been *****'s 32nd birthday. (HS Sweetheart that died 10 years ago) I know u don't like when I grieve over him, but I can't help it."
By the way, I don't mind her grieving him in a jealous sense, I hate that she is still in pain.