My H went by the book DB even after I moved out...and I definitely noticed. And it definitely made a difference. We still had to see each other to deal with children, school functions and the like, and he was his absolute best each and every time. I completely understood, though, that he was his best for his own sake, not strictly for me. There was/is still a spirit to what he was doing and I sensed it...and liked it very much.

Cheers ~~~


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.