I think I know where you are going with this, but its a good question as I never really started seeing any noticable change until the bomb was dropped. She blames the stress of the situation, though I have seen some slimming tablets to supplement this weight loss which seems strange. She is not eating much, but this is now deliberate. She said she is now the same size as she was before we were married. She is now buying new clothes, underwear etc because she said nothing fits her now. Could it be the stress of trying to hide something? She is keen for me to move out, though again am I being paranoid? Was it because I never noticed, or did I realise once I became completely paranoid about somebody else possibly being in the picture. I cannot definitively say. Suffice to say she has gone from English size 14/16 to size 10/12. I have seen so many posts where these point to a third party. What is your view, though I have an idea what you are going to say.
Last edited by markhaving probs; 03/17/0903:35 PM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
