I can't be there in person. So I figured via speaker phone was the best option to hear what is going on with my kids in counseling.
The kids counselor already knows that she is having an affar. I told the counselor before I left so that she has more of an idea of what is really going on. The counselor wasn't to pleased to hear that as both the counselor and I were under the impression that this D had to do with other things. I think before the counselor was on my W's side until she found out my W is having an A. I think now she is more on my side. But her primary focus is on the kids.
W says she hates me because I haven't coped with this entire thing well. Ya, I know. Ironic that I am the bad guy. She said she is at peace now. Well ya, she doesn't have to run around hiding her A now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
