Hi guys, Regrets, it sounds like you are doing much better and you are in a better place in your mind. Good for you.
Kel, What you said about them "doing this" to us, etc. is so on the mark. I still can't believe all of the stuff my H is doing to me and my kids. However, I keep trying to change it in my mind to tell myself that he is doing these things because there is something wrong with him. It has nothing to do with us. The things he does are just because he is messed up and he's doing it to himself. In the end, who loses? They do.
It's so nice to come on here and read that I am not alone and other people are going through the exact same thoughts and feelings that I am. Sometimes you feel like you're the only one and nobody else in the world understands.
Feel free to stop by my thread titled "I think I'm done". Have a good day guys! M
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
