Real quick, I just thought of an recent example, My wife found a card from a girl in the mail .
So she goes into full waw mode starts going through the finances. I ask what’s up? She says we cant get a D we owe too much and we cant sell the house.
I say I would like to keep trying, (putting her at the front of the list) I hate to do that to the kids, I would like to keep this family together. However, if a divorce is something you want I am sure we can work it out. ...that was met with silence and no more talk about it. The thing is I am serious and she knows it ...before I would have become scared and upset and started to point out the good, basically start pursuing and she would pour it on.
you can fix this man I know it ...hang in there you were an angel to your wife compared to me.
